You're Raising Him Alone.
And You're Terrified You're Not Enough.
What if he grows up angry? Disrespectful? Lost?
What if the statistics are right—and you can't change them?
You've googled "how to raise boys without a father" at 2am.
You've watched him push you away and wondered if it's already too late.
You've tried everything—parenting books, YouTube videos, asking friends—but none of it was made for your reality.
💔 You deserve to know the truth about what boys without fathers are up against.
STATS THAT HURT (And Why This Matters)
- 📊 U.S. Department of Justice — Children from fatherless homes are 2х as likely to end up in jail by age 30.
- 📊 CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) — 71% of high school dropouts come from father-absent homes.
- 📊 National Center for Fathering — 25% of fatherless boys exhibit serious emotional or behavioral disorders.
- 📊 U.S. Census Bureau — Father-absent youth are 4x more likely to experience poverty, depression, and suicide risk.
This book is not here to shame.
It’s here to give you the strategy you were never given.
Here's what nobody tells you:
The "father gap" is real. Boys raised without an involved father face twice the risk of dropping out, getting in trouble, and struggling emotionally.
But here's what else nobody tells you:
Those statistics are NOT your son's destiny.
With the right strategy, the right tools, and a mother who refuses to give up—your son can beat every single statistic.
He can become a man of strength, integrity, and emotional resilience.
And you can be the one who made it happen.
Why You Should Listen to Me
My name is Ilia Tchapovski.
I was the boy you're raising.
I grew up with an absent father—a man trapped in addiction, violence, and prison. My mother raised me alone, and for years, I was lost.
Without a map for manhood, I fell into addiction. I sabotaged relationships. I accumulated chaos and debt. I was the statistic you're afraid your son will become.
Everything changed the day I became a father.
Holding my son, I understood: the root of all my pain was the absence of a guide. So I became obsessed with one mission—to ensure my son would never suffer the same fate.
I spent years studying child psychology, male development, and parenting research. I interviewed experts. I applied everything in real-time with my own son.
This book is the result of that obsession.
It's not theory. It's survival-tested strategy—written by someone who lived every chapter, both as the boy and the man.
The Invisible Burden You Carry Every Day
You're doing the work of two parents with the energy of one.
- Every tantrum feels like evidence you're failing.
- Every time he acts out, you wonder: "Is this because he doesn't have a father?"
- Every parenting "tip" you try falls flat because it wasn't designed for single mothers.
The world tells you to:
- "Just love him more"
- "Find him a male role model"
- "Be tough but not too tough"
But nobody gives you the actual blueprint.
And meanwhile, your son is:
- Watching toxic masculinity online
- Learning "manhood" from YouTubers and video games
- Growing more distant, more angry, more confused
- Struggling to express his emotions without exploding
"You love him fiercely. But love alone doesn't teach him how to be a man."
What If You Had a Step-by-Step System?
WHAT THIS BOOK WILL DO FOR YOU
You'll learn:
✅ How to build his emotional strength without overprotecting him
✅ How to set boundaries that create respect — not rebellion
✅ How to teach masculine values even if there’s no man around
✅ How to counteract negative cultural messages
✅ How to raise a boy who knows his worth, respects women, and lives with discipline
That's what this book makes possible.
"Raising Him Alone" gives you the exact framework I wish my mother had—and the one I'm using right now with my own son.
WHAT'S INSIDE THE BOOK
🧠 10 Transformation-Focused Chapters
Each chapter gives you clear explanations + real-life tools you can use today.
🛠️ Bonus Toolkit included:
📝 Emotional Check-In Worksheet
📊 The Discipline Matrix
🌀 The E.A.R.S. Communication Tool
🧘 Feelings Wheel (Printable)
📝 The Legacy Letter Template
Language is simple, emotional, real.
Created for moms short on time, but big on love.
WHAT MOMS SAY
“You're not alone. Here’s what other moms who were once in your shoes are saying…”
“My son’s dad was angry and emotionally unavailable. I was terrified my boy would become just like him. This book gave me the blueprint to raise him differently—with boundaries and love.”
— Naomi D., raising an 8-year-old son alone. Los Angeles, CA
“I didn’t realize how much of my parenting was driven by fear. This book gave me language to guide my son, not just discipline him. Our whole energy at home shifted.”
— Marisol A., mom of a 7-year-old in Dallas, TX
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"The constant battle over homework, chores, and just basic respect was exhausting. I felt like I was constantly yelling, and he was constantly pushing back. The 'Parenting Power Toolkit' (the bonus) was the immediate game-changer. It gave me the exact scripts and strategies I needed to stop reacting and start leading. Now, when he gets frustrated, he uses the words I taught him from the book instead of throwing a tantrum. This isn't just theory; it's practical, real-world peace."
— Jessica L., Mother of a 5-year-old
"After my relationship ended, the daily grind of solo parenting left me emotionally drained, scared I'd pass on my stress to my little guy. The guide's focus on self-care and fun bonding activities brought light back into our days—we laugh more, argue less. It's grounded in real mom realities, and it's given me hope that he'll thrive as an emotionally intelligent boy."
— Megan S., mom of a 10-year-old
“Using the frameworks and principles from this book significantly reduced friction in parenting and created real confidence and emotional safety between me and my son. He trusts me more now — and I trust myself too.”
— Ilia Tchapovski, author & father of 12-year-old
🌟 Founding Member Pricing: Just $9.99
This book just launched — and you're early.
To honor the mothers who believe in this mission from day one, I’m offering Founding Member pricing: only $9.99 for the complete system.
Here’s why:
I grew up without a father. I lived the chaos, confusion, and consequences.
Years later, as a father myself, I broke the cycle. I created the system I wish my mother had — and I use it every day to raise my own son.
I could charge $29.99 (and I eventually will).
But right now?
I care more about impact than income.
Here's Everything You Get Today:
✅ The Complete 10-Chapter Ebook (Real Value: $29)
The full roadmap for raising an emotionally strong boy
✅ 4 Ready-to-Use Toolkits (Real Value:$19)
- Emotional Check-In Worksheet
- The Discipline Matrix (S.A.F. Method)
- The E.A.R.S. Communication Tool
- The Feelings Wheel + Legacy Letter Template
Printable, actionable tools you can use TODAY
✅ Lifetime Access (Priceless)
Re-read it at every stage of his growth—6 years old, 12, 16, 25
✅ Mobile-Optimized PDF
Read it on your phone during pickup, lunch breaks, or midnight worry sessions
Total Real Value: $48+
🎯 Founding Member Price: $29.99 → $9.99
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Once we reach 500 downloads, or the print version launches, the price will increase.
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